Jim Roots wrote:[
I'm sure you weren't interested in kiln work until you met that expert who had the skill and enthusiasm to fascinate you in it. So be open to topics that you normally expect to bore you silly. it's that element of surprise that makes life stimulating.
The most important lesson my wife has taught me is, "Don't make assumptions." Good marital advice -- it's how ours has survived for 24 years and counting -- and it applies to darned near everything. The tales we're hearing are about people assuming silent B&W films are boring and therefore never taking the time to watch one or listen to an expert talk about them. If they could put aside those assumptions and be open to new information and experiences, even if they still expect to be bored, they would open themselves to some thrilling revelations.
Jim
You might laugh, but the pair I talked to were
not experts, they had only been doing it for a small number of years but were very interesting and enthusiastic in how much they'd learned both by their successes and failures. I even ended up helping them with a problem they were having by sharing my knowledge of how to use a library. One thing that shocks me is how many people
don't understand how to access information in a library.
It was sort of in my nature to not assume anything about people I met, and also never to pass up a chance to learn something new. I have knowledge that's probably so esoteric it's of no real value at all (does anyone you know understand how those old mechanical cash registers work? I do.), but I didn't pass up a chance to learn it. There are some things that are too far over my head, but I don't cut anyone off from talking about it. If it doesn't pan out, at least I wasn't talking about trivia, although even that has its uses, too.
I think you understand well how much learning new things helps in life, and your wife is a wise woman.